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Subs (Not Dommes),

Do you feel the level of desperate Dommes on this forum is just outrageous.

I mean is there any real Dommes that come to a sub forum for support to “quit” findom?

I’m here to support my fellow subs and try to quit or at least help find a healthy dynamic, but the level of Dommes that stalk our post then DM us begging for money is just pathetic.

Are they all fake? Cause a genuine Domme wouldn’t be here on a subs forum right?

PS, to all the fake dommes that downvote me, “Fuck you too and have a nice day”

A few of my trusted council and myself have started harvesting kidneys from unsuspecting folks. Don’t worry about who or how but just know that they wake up in an ice cube filled bathtub with a message written on the mirror of:

Thanks for the donation! Call 911 and keep on a truckin.

Now I have a gross of fresh kidneys sitting in my Mom’s basement deep freezer next to my secret stash of pepperoni bagle bites. She can’t get down the stairs so it’s in safe hands.

My question is: Is it unethical for me to sell these kidneys on the dark web and give the money to random Dommes?

I don’t think I’ll ever get tired of this. Once again, I’m digging up the best findom story ever told so it will never be forgotten. And it’s a true story. How do I know this? Because it’s so candidly awkward, no one can make this shit up. Enjoy this innocent story of findom, kebabs, and Burger King.

Someday, I’ll learn to write stories as compelling as this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/paypigsupportgroup/s/VHIcvCYyJM

Recently I robbed a bank. Turns out my getaway car was barely large enough to hold all the cash.

I ended up keeping a decent portion of the money, but considered giving the rest to Dommes. It feels semi wrong and unethical, but idk?

Thoughts?

(Yes, I know the other guy deleted his ridiculous post. But that’s not going to stop a troll like me.)

So basically there is this guy that I have been on and off with for a while. Hes always considered himself a stone top and hadn’t been interested in bottoming.

I do switch sometimes and so this was fine for a while but eventually he got boring, and wasn’t putting in effort with me. Things had felt very hot and cold until we were hanging out one time, things started getting sexual and I felt myself switching to more of a top role. To my surprise he was super receptive and went very very subby.

Its been a couple weeks since then and we’ve slowly been exploring it more. Yesterday we met up to do some rope bondage, and he asked me to tie him (he usually is the rigger out of the two of us). I was happy to. I ended up tying him legs spread with the rope framing his cock through his pants, isolating the head, teasing and edging him through the fabric. It was so fun threatening to make him cum his pants.

Eventually I wanted to play with him more so I untied him, stripped him, continued to use a vibrator to edge him while I slowly warmed up his ass, and then finger fucked him while he lay helpless.

After a couple hours of begging I eventually let him cum. It was such a thrill feeling his ass clamp down on my fingers as he released himself.

Honestly the fact that I have turned this man from someone that only tops/doms into a subby little anal bitch brings me great satisfaction.

Hey everyone, – first time posting

So here’s my weird little story.

My ex broke up with me, got a new guy, moved on with her life… and somehow I still ended up sending her money. No relationship, no strings just me falling into this unexpected paypig role after the breakup.

And the crazy part? I actually realized I liked the dynamic.

Now I’m at a point where I want to explore this kink properly with an actual findomme someone who owns the role, not an ex I accidentally slipped into it with.

Has anyone else discovered their kink in a completely unplanned way like this?

Yes, you read that right.
My Domme helped me quit findom… or at least, the unhealthy way I was using it.

I’m an older sub, stable in my career, comfortable financially. I’ve never really struggled with women offline either, I’ve had plenty of relationships, some long term, and I can talk to women without any issues.

But about 3 years ago I stumbled onto my first cam site. For a few months I just watched and never spent anything. Then one day, a girl on the site DM’d me first (which already felt Dominant to me), just a simple “hi” and some small talk. That’s when I sent my first tip. The reaction I got from her, the attention, the praise, hit me like a dopamine rush. I kept tipping to keep that feeling going. I wasn’t addicted to the money part as much as I was addicted to the attention and approval.

Fast forward 2 years and I was deep in that pattern: tipping random women, usually ones with femdom/Dominant tags, just to get noticed. I started to believe that this was what I needed online, that this was just “how it was” for me (even though I never behaved like that in real life).

6 months ago I met my current Domme. At that time I still had a findom-style dynamic going with a Domme from the subreddits, but the dynamic was souring and I just wasn’t into it anymore. I finally ended it. The Domme who owns me now was very clear from the beginning: I did not need to pay her, and if I sent anything, I would be expected to explain why. I learned later that she was making sure my sending came from genuine submission and devotion, not from a needy scramble for attention.

She has been consistent with me every single day for 6 months. She gives me attention when I need it, not when I pay for it. She does it because she truly wants to Dominate me and help me grow into a better man and a better sub. Her care has been steady, patient, and real. That consistency has changed me more than I can put into words.

Now, when I send to her, it’s because I want to honor her. Sometimes I go weeks without sending, and it doesn’t change anything between us. She is my Domme with or without the money. That broke the addiction I had to sending just to be seen, which I actually hated. Now I send out of devotion, and I love sending to her. There’s no guilt, no shame, no crash afterward like there was years ago.

After experiencing a connection like this, where I feel no pressure to send and no fear that she will disappear if I don’t, I could never go back to the way I was. This is one of the many reasons why I’ve stayed hers for 6 months, and why I have no desire, and no plans, to ever leave her.

I wish more Dommes and subs would realize this. That if the dynamic isn’t about the money first and foremost, than the dynamic can foster and grow into something special, like I have. If she would have been like all the other women I tipped/sent to, I wouldn’t be her sub 6 months later.

In summary. Findom can be much more than just sending for attention. It can be a long term, growing of both parties into something beautiful.

Any other subs stay away from findom for a long time and then out of the blue can’t help but fixate on it again? Just when you think you’re free and clear, boom its like you never left it. Its been super difficult lately. I can’t be the only one.