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As a direct ascendant of the. KING of Greenland I declared myself the rightful ruler yesterday and retook the throne in Nuuk!!

In honor of my domme, I sold it for 1 trillion doll hairs, 16 cattle, 42 sheep and 4 tons of bacala.

Just sent it by airmail to her home.

Hope this pleases Goddess. Nothing is too good for her.

So….it has came to my attention that this has never been said on this subreddit. I would like to be the first to say it. GO WATCH ONE PEICE. It’s a great way to take your mind off this (if you’re trying to quit). And it’ll be the best show you ever watch in your life.

Doms that have watched OP, please force your subs 🙂

FYI- it’s only 1 season 😜

When I’m thinking about the appeal of findom its hard for me to describe. Of course there is the subordination the hierarchy but you have this nearly all sub-dom dynamics. So what makes findom so special.

I guess the root is in the capitalistic system. Money is power and capitalism teaches us to seek both, so giving your money, your power, your freedom to another and that because you want to is a rebellious act. It makes you vulnerable but it frees you. Free from decision, free from chase of the capital, free from the expectations of society.

But capitalism also teaches us the exchange of goods and services. We are told to seek getting the most out of our money, as always looking for a unreachable optimum. Giving your money away without the expectation to get something is crazy in a capitalistic system and so it’s not surprising to feel shame. But giving without expecting return is not crazy, its devotion, its love its emotion. You shouldn’t be ashamed for devoting to another person you adore (unless you like to be ashamed) you should be proud. You express your feelings in a glorious way. You are rebellious, a warm and kind monolith in a cold and cruel world. You should love yourself just like you love others, you deserve it.

It took less than 30 seconds for chatGPT to generate this – I’m aware it’s an obvious fake but with more prompts it can be refined.

Hello you little peasants. Look at this luxury meal I’m eating at a five star dinning restaurant in the best city in the world! Now turn out your pockets and dig deep. You guys need to pay up so I can enjoy this meal. I’m only accepting sends of 100 or more!

Get cheesed on! 💋

I’m a lot more vanilla than most I suppose, and sometimes I enjoy going through these subs to see what types of things others in this community are into. I’m often surprised by the range of kinks and dynamic preferences, especially the niche ones. What are your favourite dynamics? Why? How did you discover you were into them?

I don’t mind if a few dommes comment but if you are a domme and notice that the comment section is majority domme POV, don’t comment. Also, don’t blatantly advertise, please.

I’ve made many quitting attempts over the years and I’m trying to give it a serious shot again. My main issue with staying away from findom has been that I hardly find anything nearly as exciting anymore. I assume my brain was rewired long ago, I fetishized something that shouldn’t have been and I rewarded and solidified certain neural pathways with repeated behaviors. I have been forcing myself to “enjoy” more ordinary things, but that usually ends up with me browsing findom-related content. If anything, it feels like I should get myself going with findom stuff, and finish on something more “normal” to somehow link it to the dopamine hit. Anyway, how do you manage to pull that off to go back to enjoying more conventional things, and how long does it take? Any advice in general is welcome. I’ve been really struggling and I hope I can use the momentum of the new year to build stronger motivation and discipline.