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HI im a sub from Canada and was wondering where’s everyone from? Also happy hollidays!

I’ve been thinking about different forms of dominance within findom. Most of what I see lean toward harshness and humiliation, which I understand can be appealing to many.

At the same time, I’m curious about softer approaches, dynamics where there’s care, yet rules and structure are firm, trust, guidance, etc. (this is more my approach) rather than constant pressure or degradation.

I’d love to hear different perspectives and experiences. Thanks

I have been doing this challenege a couple of times already and it’s absolutely making me rock solid.

I just basically write some random dommes / wankbattlers / Gooners and introduce them to the cum tax idea.

The general idea is simple.

I have a growing cum tax which I have to pay if I cum to whatever, whenever. That tax is then payed 50% to my goddess / wankbattle dude or whatever and the other half to the person making me cum.

The tax can be increased by: – anyone who DMs me and makes me rate 10: +1€ – anyone who DMs me and finds and names a weakness: +3€

Fuck I had a couple of really shitty dommes who were super passive. But shit if someone really understands and goes all in: the last one was a domme which was called goonette something. She literally posted about this challenege after I accepted. Made people write me every day, made a dedicated gooning group for me, and blackmailed me (not really just a kink and a bit of safety in case she feels like I wanna run).

I ended up paying 300€ after 2-3 days of getting completely mind fucked.

And now I am here. Addicted to this self destructive challenege.. gosh

I have been doing this challenege a couple of times already and it’s absolutely making me rock solid.

I just basically write some random dommes / wankbattlers / Gooners and introduce them to the cum tax idea.

The general idea is simple.

I have a growing cum tax which I have to pay if I cum to whatever, whenever. That tax is then payed 50% to my goddess / wankbattle dude or whatever and the other half to the person making me cum.

The tax can be increased by: – anyone who DMs me and makes me rate 10: +1€ – anyone who DMs me and finds and names a weakness: +3€

Fuck I had a couple of really shitty dommes who were super passive. But shit if someone really understands and goes all in: the last one was a domme which was called goonette something. She literally posted about this challenege after I accepted. Made people write me every day, made a dedicated gooning group for me, and blackmailed me (not really just a kink and a bit of safety in case she feels like I wanna run).

I ended up paying 300€ after 2-3 days of getting completely mind fucked.

And now I am here. Addicted to this self destructive challenege.. gosh

It’s been almost a week since I asked my wife and goddess to take full control over my orgasms and chastity! 😱 I’ve been allowed one orgasm since, and today she told me I’m to edge myself for awhile but absolutely no cumming 😩 I leak/drip a decent amount already as is, can’t wait to see how much more that happens during and after edging my session 🫠 wouldn’t have it any other way 🥴🫠🥵

Any other subs (or doms!) partying tonight? Drinking and smoking up here in anticipation of Christmas. Its been a long week, so who else want to party?

not sure if anyone else is on the same boat but i’m spending christmas alone this year, all my family are out of town basically.

i’ve been trying to quit findom, i spent a lot this year but i’m about 3 months clean, but i’ve just been feeling down and being alone for christmas def making the urges worse. especially since i’m someone who has gotten triggered easily in the past.

i don’t understand why findom is so hard to get out of your mind either. like even when i’m doing good it still pops up.

idk maybe this a dumb post but didn’t have anyone to vent to so here i am. Merry Christmas everyone 🎄

Most creative and ruthless ones maybe?

Side note: who are ur favourite findom creators nowodays.

Is there a worse feeling? I’ve paid this content seller to domme me numerous times, and she’s amazing.

She doesn’t really seemed interested in being my longterm domme, though, as she mostly does normal content selling, as opposed to strictly findom.

Anyone else ever dealt with this? How do I cope with it? It’s so tough. 😭😂