My green flags in a femdom/findom dynamic

I want to start by saying that everyone is different and that what is a green flag to me may be a red flag for others. But I am curious how other’s see this so I hope this can start a useful discussion.

Please note: I serve a single dominant at the moment and do not seek anyone else. Please do not respond to this post in any way offering your services for taking my money or otherwise as a dominant.

So without further ado, here are the green flags I look out for in a findom arrangement:

• Posts consistently and do not have long breaks in posting: Long breaks to me are like ghosting. I’m looking for someone who enjoys the dynamic AND the money. If you need the money today and tomorrow find someone who gives it to you, then disappear for months, I would feel like you might just be desperate for the cash at the moment, rather than enjoy the benefits it may give you.
• Posts selectively: If you send the same image to 20 or more subreddits every day or every few hours I likely lose confidence that you are genuinely seeking a connection. Imagine dating someone in the vanilla world and using a dozen dating apps. I want you to use the one or maybe 3 places that most fit the dynamic you are after. It tells me something about how we may relate to each other.
• Goes beyond the visual thirst trap: It’s absolutely fine if 90% of what you post are thirst traps. I get it I’m a guy and sometimes pretty shallow. Yet I do feel much more drawn to someone who can express what and why they enjoy this dynamic through clever post titles and the odd more reflective text post or comment.
• Understands Pro-Domme and Findom are different things: I am not saying that a findomme cannot be a pro-domme and that the two don’t naturally go hand in hand. But a dominant should understand the difference. I may seek someone who is using this to make a living, but I may also seek someone just because they enjoy the dynamic, but are open to give more time than their daytime job makes them.
• Accepts Budgets: A good findom accepts that I have a budget. I always pay for their time negotiating, even if nothing comes off it. I will always communicate my budget upfront. But I need them to accept that budget.
• Findom is usually one of many kinks we want tickled: I consider it important to understand that whilst findom is a kink, it’s by far not my only kink and that addressing nothing but findom is likely not going to end up in a dynamic that I’ll find enjoyable.
• Stops at signs of deteoriating mental health and loss of control: It’s all fun role playing about home wrecking and giving my last cent, but in reality we seek an outlet from our stressful lives and I need to feel with a dominant that if they see serious harm being done by a spiralling submissive, then they do stop.

So I’m curious what other green flags you all would love to share.