Male sub question

I found this guy in a kinky app. We liked each other from online. He wants to sub, i want to dominate. We texted a bit and made a date while he was in a cage. I saw him in person and i didnt like his appearance (to put it nicely) so i ghosted him and no showed the date. Terrible, i know. We matched again on the same kinky app after i took a break. He followed my advice from before abt getting a smaller cage and said he still hasnt found a domme and doesnt hold my ghosting against him. Should i try and go for a strictly Domme, Male Sub dynamic since i am curious? But not go for any fwb kinda thing? Or just not do it at all. Pls help