I Basically Became My Ex’s Paypig… and Now I Want a Real Findomme

Hey everyone, – first time posting

So here’s my weird little story.

My ex broke up with me, got a new guy, moved on with her life… and somehow I still ended up sending her money. No relationship, no strings just me falling into this unexpected paypig role after the breakup.

And the crazy part? I actually realized I liked the dynamic.

Now I’m at a point where I want to explore this kink properly with an actual findomme someone who owns the role, not an ex I accidentally slipped into it with.

Has anyone else discovered their kink in a completely unplanned way like this?