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I really want to go the whole of 2026 without relapsing sending, without watching much porn, cutting out all alcohol and gambling. Any impulsive and self destructive things I want to take away but it’s just so difficult I’m a lonely person and I get bored and gravitate towards harmful things for dopamine etc. It’s tough but I’m trying

Ist very unattractive to you when a dom isn’t really successful ?

Like when a dom is begging for money tge fun of findom disappears

I find myself trying to satisfy richer girls and begging to send to them knowing they dont really need it

I’ve had a really big urge to relapse a little. I haven’t sent in a month I think, but I’m laying here edging my cunt and I’m really in the mood and I know it’ll send me over the edge, but I don’t want to regret it.

So yesterday i celebrated NYE with my domme, didnt want to go out or anything and at my age most of my friends have their little family or have moved out of town, so its totally normal for me to be alone on NYE, but not this year… i had an amazing night and chatted with Mistress, we watched Interstellar, I cried (again for the 5th time with this damn movie)

Today, i knew when I woke up things would be different. I can always tell in the way my domme speaks to me if shes going to dom me or no, usually by like the first or second text she sends me. Well I wasn’t wrong. So she bossed me all day, made me clean my whole house and I had to provide video proof, had to spank myself cuz it wasnt done her way, and then she sent me to take a bath, while she watched on live video call because she wanted to make sure her little girl was all clean and shaved before she had her way with her…

So once I finished shaving every bit of hair on my chest cock ass and legs (she lets be keep my hair on my arm so I can continue to pretend to be a man in public, how nice of her) once I was all cleaned up, her toy was ready for her to play with. I was sent to bed, and I was instructed to fuck myself for her, and when I finally found my P-spot and began to go to town with it, I knew she was touching herself while watching me….and guys, I made her cum!

I mean like yes, me, her little wolfy subby, little did I know she was also playing with her clit while watching me 2 fingers deep and I heard the most beautiful moaning ever. Obviously I wasnt allowed to cum, because its all about her pleasure, so I was swiflty instructed to cage myself while she monitored the operation on cam (She Loves the clicking it makes when it locks, so I clicked it a dozen of times for her while we laughed together) and then sent to bed at 7pm (shes from UK, it was midnight for her)

I know she will be mad tomorrow when she sees this post because her little girl is up past her bedtime, but fuckkkkkk I had to share this beautiful experience because my domme is the hottest person I know and I’ve never felt so excited to belong to a woman like this ever in my life. I mean I never thought Id submit to a woman period. All my exes submitted to me, so this is all very new for me and extremely exciting to switch role. If you arent, you are missing on the most exciting for a man life has to offer.

I will continue to keep my house clean for Mistress, continue to stay nice and clean for Mistress, all soft and shaved and ready for her whenever she wants to play. This year we have so many projects, I’ll share some with yall maybe it will give some of you some ideas for those on virtual dynamics (for those in IRL i envy you lol)

1. She wants me to install camera in my house to monitor me 24/7 or as she pleases. Mind you, it will be done in respect, no camera when theres guest, not in the bathroom either I mean we arent gross either, I will be able to turn them off if I ever need intimacy (i mean obviously i wont cuz she owns my intimacy at this point) and the discipline I will be facing will be very strict and Ill have to become a clean little girl, no messy house anymore and no more smoking in the bed..i mean no more smoking in the house….arggggggg

2. She is planning to make me order remotely-activate butt plug that I will have to wear when she tells me to, so she can activate it while Im at work, traveling in public transportation….leaking inside my little cage….

3. Downsizing of the cage, right now the one I have I can still get nice erections inside, but she is planning to shrink my cocklett to an inverted cage and train me to squirt on her command

4. I’ll have to install a dildo in my shower, for her to watch and enjoy (using the phone camera cuz once again we arent into that weird stuff, not for us)

5. Obviously I will be kept pussy-free and taught to look at the floor when a woman looks at me in public (until further instructions are given)

6. Train me to achieve Hands-free-orgasm (im getting closer!!)

but thats only the lewd stuff, she has way more projects for me like;

-Buying my car (i mean, with my own money obviously but ill have to thank HER for it 🤪😜) -Continue to send money to my saving so I can build more wealth (she loves to make me send to myself 🤪🤪🤪) -Increase my 2nd business by investing more money into it (i do e commerce and buy bulk stuff from china to resell for extra income) -Support me in moving to a better place, closer to work -Continue to help me in my exploration of myself, with deep sessions of introspections, where I learn to become a better person -Continue to teach me how to manage my money properly (vuz i mean duhh this is Findom, she does control every single dollar I earn)

Guys when I met my domme, I was at 0$, living paycheck to paycheck, smoking like a cheminey and ordering take out twice a day…. Now not only are all my bills paid weeks ahead, I have a safety cushion in case of an emergency, I eat way more healthy, I take so much better care of myself…..

Look, Findom doesnt have to feel degrading and humiliating all the time… trust me, humiliation feels SO much better when you really trust the person, and a good domme SHOULD teach you that self-respect comes before any kinky activity or wtv. She has my bank account email and password, she controls every aspect of my life. She wont connect cuz uh its illegal (she says) but I mean, with the snap of a finger I am back to where I was when she met me, broke. Its such a huge turn on to know she gave me all of this but she can take it all away at any moment…. Find a domme you can trust and who genuinely wants to see you do better for yourself… its the best feeling in the whole world okay?

Have a wonderful New Years to all of yall, and if your domme doesnt bring you up, you deserve better and trust me the good ones are out there since I began to send positive energy, ive been approached by a bunch of amazing domme who just wanted to risked sliding in m DM just to tell me how inspirational I was making my dynamic sound… so go out there and find them. The only trick I can give you is; If you put out good energy, you will attract good people.

Stop making posts about being pathetic and not being able to find a good domme. Just stop. It doesnt make them want to approach (yes I said it, its okay for dommes to approach subs lol)

Have fun, good evening everyone and I wish you all the best for 2026!!!

I’m done with half-hearted experiences. Has anyone here actually found genuine, absolute domination?

I’ve poured a lot into this before. There were times I was pushed to my limits, drained intensely and experienced thousands gone in just days.

But once the excitement faded, it always turned out the same: they cared only about the cash, not about truly owning my mind. No sustained control. No real dynamic. Just quick, emotionless hits.

I’m not looking to be treated like an ATM anymore. I want real power exchange. I want to surrender completely, be reshaped, trained, and controlled, not just exploited for money.

No more casual drains. No more detached conversations. I want someone who genuinely thrives on total domination, financial, psychological, emotional.

Has anyone actually experienced that kind of complete ownership? Or is it just something we endlessly chase but never truly find?

I know it may seem like I’m trying to find a relationship, but I’m just lost…

For me a big green flag I didn’t appreciate enough at first is people who just aren’t afraid to be themselves.

The posts or comments where you can really see who they are and not who they think others want them to be always stand out to me.

If you’re someone who shows up as yourself in these spaces keep doing that. It matters more than trying to impress anyone else 😊

So far I haven’t relapsed in 2026. I’m really trying to focus on that goal. Its been a real challenge not to relapse lately. Anyone else in the same boat?

Subs & Doms — what is your dream destination to travel to this year!!

Anyone else feel bad for messaging a domme and taking up her time if its not without tribute or sends? I don’t think its healthy to feel like I have to send just to start a conversation and that im wasting someone’s time when we’re not discussing kink.

Sometimes I just think a comment they made is funny and I want to get to know them as a person with a possibility to enter a dynamic but I don’t do so because I feel like im taking someone else’s time and wasting it if im not sending even if its for vanilla things