Author: admin_tom

do any dommes prefer older subs(+35). I know it’s not really old but I feel like this space is dominated by younger

Allow me to put this into context:

Everytime I hear about masculine/feminine, the conversation always goes for men being masculine and women being feminine. I’m not talking about that. I’m strictly talking about the idea that the masculine and the feminine are attracted to each other and there’s sexual charge when both are present. I’m also aware of the terms masc and femme but to my understanding they’re about appearances and not necessarily personality.

What do you think about the concept of sexual polarity? Do you find this happening in femdom/FLR relationships? Do you find the polarity flips in a dominant woman/submissive man dynamic? It doesn’t have to be just heterosexual relationships, I’m open to hearing accounts from LGBTQ relationships as well.

Today I had the absolute misfortune of being contacted by someone who claimed she was 19. Within a few minutes of looking at her profile, I was able to figure out her real name, the high school she attends, her mother’s name, and even her TikTok account. She may or may not have been a minor but i’m definitely not sending to a damn high schooler.

That was deeply uncomfortable, and honestly alarming.

I cannot believe this needs to be said, but please do not use your real name on kink accounts. Do not reuse usernames from vanilla social media. Do not link accounts together. Do not overshare personal details that make you easily identifiable.

This is not just about privacy. It is about safety and legality. You may think you are being transparent or authentic, but in reality you are making it incredibly easy for strangers to identify you, and in some cases, for adults to unknowingly be put in serious legal jeopardy.

If you are under 18, you should not be anywhere near adult spaces. If you are over 18, protect yourself and others by keeping your kink presence anonymous.

Please take this seriously. It only takes one interaction to create a situation you do not want to be in.

i have been trying to quit fd ever since my old domme quit. it’s been a struggle with ups and downs but was pleasantly surprised to have her come back into my life. she pushed me to lapse and it felt so good. i am back and owned again

Just something I’ve been wondering. If there’s any particular line of work that draws in (or maybe creates) guys like us. I feel like software guys are overrepresented. It’s also just a natural question with a kink so related to money.