What am missing?

I hope this is allowed

I’ve always been very interested in femdom. I was introduced to it by someone that I went to school with. Since then, I’ve wanted to get back into but didn’t know how to find anyone who would be interested without scaring them. Recently, I’ve gotten back on seeking but this time around, I don’t really know why, but I made my profile about how I want someone who will worship me, blah blah. I wasn’t really thinking much into and I figured people would just pass me up. Well I had a lot of men reach out to me that were “interested”. We switched to texting and none of them wanted to answer any questions or go into the actual details of what they were wanting. So what I mean is one was interested and he asked what I’d want as an allowance. I answered that it would depend on how often we’d be seeing each other basically what would make the most sense for the dynamic he was wanting. I guess that was too much for him to think about and he replied with “well best”. I asked another to explain something that he said and he responded basically that he didn’t want to have to explain everything he said. Which was weird because this was the first thing I’d asked him to explain.

Anyway, is it me wanting to go into to much detail that or is it them not wanting to explain what they’re wanting, the issue here? I think that going into detail about what we are both wanting, etc is very important for relationships like this. Can yall let me know if I’m crazy for thinking this. I think that maybe I could change the way I bring up wanting to talk about details more but, ultimately that conversation does need to happen. Please help!