Anyone find a domme that gets obsessed with them?

I’ve usually been the one obsessed with a domme. Which is the normal I believe. But I feel the craving for a domme to want to really get inside my head and be obsessed with manipulating me and figuring out me and who I am. I love the idea of a domme being super aggressive and figuring how to make me do whatever. But I feel it’s usually the other way around where I’m the one obsessed and begging for attention. Thoughts?