Findom & Dommes are way too powerful, seems impossible to stop relapsing

What’s up guys. I joined Reddit not too long ago to check this community out and be around other people who understand this issue, because there really aren’t many people who get this stuff.

I’ve been a couple months since my last relapse, which is good considering I’ve spent thousands this year and I get triggered pretty easily. But l’ve done this so many times now. I’ll make it a couple months in, feel like I’m doing okay, and then I end up falling back into it.

At this point I honestly feel like I just don’t have the mental power. I’m really not trying to be negative about myself, but dommes are just simply more powerful than me with their minds, bodies, and intelligence. It feels like a losing battle, and I feel outmatched.

When I first got into findom, I thought the whole “women are superior” thing was just a phrase for roleplay and the fantasy of it. Now I without a doubt see why people say that.

Even just seeing attractive women in public increases my urges to relapse. Then that combined with my loneliness i get triggered easily. I’ve really tried staying busy, focusing on willpower, working out, eating better, stuff like that. It helps for a little while, but honestly it’s not helping as much as I thought it would.

I’m just wondering if anyone else has felt like they’ve come to the conclusion that maybe they just mentally aren’t strong enough to fight, or if this is more of a personal issue I need to approach differently?